Curvy Chat…… To BUY a GIFT or NAW

gift3Another holiday season is among us… The season of giving; family and all that good stuff. Or is it? There is an issue however, that has come up that we need clarity on. One of my readers sent in this question…… “I just started dating this guy in late October, everything is going good but Christmas is around the corner. Do we exchange gifts? Is it too early for that? or do we just go on with our normal routine?”

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I personally think it depends on the relationship, if everything is going good and you both are mutually happy then go for it. Why not? It’s all about what’s in YOUR heart and it’s the thought that counts. Keep in mind though; if you decide to get him a gift and he doesn’t provide you with one then it’s possible you’ll be disappointed. So my question to you is do you talk about it first so that there is a understanding ahead of time? Or do you just wait and see what happens?

JOIN THE CONVERSATION AND LET US KNOW YOUR THOUGHTS………

DO YOU BUY A GIFT FOR A NEW MATE? OR DO YOU WAIT? IS THERE A TIME LIMIT ON SHARING SUCH A SPECIAL DAY?

Let us know, all COMMENTS ARE WELCOME

YOU CAN ASK MYS’TIQUE BY SENDING QUESTIONS TO THICKLYTATD@GMAIL.COM

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3 thoughts on “Curvy Chat…… To BUY a GIFT or NAW”

  1. I agree that its whats in your heart but I don’t think gift giving should be expected on either side. If you feel it then do it regardless of whether you get a gift back. And the same goes for him. If I am in a new relationship, I might do something like make a nice dinner and maybe get him a card letting him know that I am feeling him and the relationship. There should be no pressure though.

  2. I agree that it is the thought that counts but I don’t think giving a give should be required. If it’s in your heart to give a gift then by all means do that but you shouldn’t be expected to and you shouldn’t get the gift and then expect the same. And don’t be disappointed if he doesn’t return the gesture. Since it is an early relationship, I’d feel inclined to make a nice dinner and get him a card to let him know that I am feeling him and the relationship but there shouldn’t be any pressure either way.

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