Mani Hendrixx: THE GREAT DEBATE, Part 1

Since the beginning, men and women were place on this earth to coexist and learn to love one another; whether we’ve passed or failed that test is still up for debate. In today’s society, there are plenty of different types of relationships, will I name them? Hell no, because nobody got time for that. The definition of relationship is: the way in which two or more concepts, objects, or people are connected, or the state of being connected. However that relates to you and your situation, figure it out. As I get older I find it a little easier to understand the male mind, from a non-emotional state.

Woman and men fault when the relationship finally boils over. Ladies do you want to know the key to happiness? Shut up and stop over thinking. Simple right, just like men. Guys are simple as 1, 2, 3 and we make it more complex by trying to over analyze. Let’s start from the beginning; there are stages in a relationship right: “chilling” phase, dating, and then finally admitting to a relationship. How long these phases last completely depend on the type of woman that you are and man that he is. There’s literally an ample amount of angles I can cross, so I’ll try to keep it simple, bear with me. Guys, can you ALL do us a favor and stop lying?! As most of you already know, and are quite good at it, lying keeps us in the dark (obvious).  If you don’t want a relationship, tell her. If you lead a woman on into thinking that there is a possibility of more she will take that and RUN with it. What woman doesn’t wasn’t a relationship? We crave special love and attention from someone we care about and if we’re feeling you, we’ll seek it. Ladies this is where you fault: your emotions make you dumb.  As harsh as it may sound, that’s exactly how I meant it. I include myself under that umbrella as well; our emotions take over and suddenly it’s all about him. A boy will keep taking what you give and not give back in return; a man will let you know “This is not what I’m here for.”  Some women get easily attached, hop from relationship to relationship and wonder why the end up hurt. That is your own fault, no one else.  When you skip over the dating phase you’re only cheating yourself in figuring out the guys true intentions with you. No man, in his right mind, will hop in a relationship because the sex is good. You are not the only woman with a mouth and a stove and they will try as many as possible to get what they’re looking for.

Our generation and the next have been subjects to the standers “relationship goals.” Where is the pressure coming from?  Yep, social media.  It’s amazing how we develop “goals” on love from an app instead of making our own.

Thickly Yours,

Mani Hendrixx

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