Slut Shaming…..Murder She Wrote: Death of the Vision

Murder She Wrote: Death of the Vision

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A Woman is what? A woman is and could be more than she would ever imagine; but in times we struggle to hold ourselves above the standards. But why? Women, of all nations, face social issues and repression because we aren’t seen as equal. From the way we dress, walk and talk, we’re constantly being judged by not just men but other woman as well. Does it really have to be this way?

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Some of the questions I’m asking always have a different response: “Well if she wouldn’t dress like a hoe…” or “A woman should know better?” Who’s to say she doesn’t but then again who are you to judge. It’s a new day and with all the social media and technology among us, a female is able to portray herself in any image she pleases. It’s time to sweep the image of a ‘perfect woman’ under the rug. Asking a man to give his opinion of a woman is redundant; all men see is an image. What you have on is the first thing they see, and that’s all they need to determine a set thought about you.

Both men and women have a horrible habit of #SlutShaming. Slut Shaming is: the verbal chastising of a woman because of her choices, lifestyle and sexuality. If women treated each other like we do drunk in club bathrooms, a lot of the name calling could be avoided. Raise your hand if you can exclude yourself from “The Walk of Shame”? You can’t, then you’re a hoe, I don’t care if it was only once. You did a “hoe” thing. Now does that sound fair? No it doesn’t and it’s not. Is Ashley a hoe because she’s a stripper paying off student loans? Is Dominique a hoe because her boyfriend is 8 years older than her? How do you define a hoe? Celebrity Amber Rose has started a campaign to end #SlutShaming. She’s one of many to be criticized by the public because of her past and being able to move on with her life. I for one love her, and skimming through her comments, I see more men or should I say BOYS leaving the pathetic “you’re a hoe” comments. Honestly it’s really sad!

So with all that being said cut the BS! I’m pretty sure you’re friends, sisters, and cousins have a past just as filthy as the woman you’re talking about. Put an end to drama and hold off on calling the next girl you see with corn-chips on anything, because I’m sure the next hot day you’ll have yours on as well. As for the men, there’s not much we can do to change their opinions. Next time you hear them calling someone out asking them, “What makes her a hoe?” He’ll probably have some lame excuse, and still would hit. Being open with yourself and mind doesn’t make you a hoe. When you’ve accepted yourself and who you are as a person prepare for the backlash! It’s okay, stay true to you!

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Mani Hendrixx

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